God, Marriage, and Family: Rebuilding the Biblical Foundation

Third Edition

By Andreas J. Köstenberger, Marny Köstenberger

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God, Marriage, and Family: Rebuilding the Biblical Foundation

Third Edition

By Andreas J. Köstenberger, Marny Köstenberger

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Tackles the Latest Debates and Cultural Challenges Regarding God’s Plan for the Home 

We live in a time of crisis regarding marriage and the family, and only by a return to the biblical foundation can these institutions be rebuilt. To provide an integrated, biblical treatment of the full range of marriage and family issues, Andreas and Marny Köstenberger examine what Scripture says about God’s purposes for humans in their marriage and family interactions. 

The third edition of God, Marriage, and Family explores the latest controversies, cultural shifts, and teachings within both the church and society, while applying Scripture’s timeless principles to contemporary issues. This edition includes a foreword by Carl Trueman and offers further discussion on recent debates, including gender role confusion, transgenderism, abortion, and same-sex marriage. It serves as a valuable resource for personal and group study, Christian counseling, and marriage and family courses. 

  • Comprehensive Scope: Covers many topics related to marriage and the family, including parenting, singleness, homosexuality, divorce and remarriage, and the family-church relationship
  • Biblical Focus: Provides a thorough survey of the entire biblical teaching on every subject it addresses
  • Valuable Study Resource: Ideal for personal and group study or as a textbook for Christian marriage and family courses

Authors:

Andreas J. Köstenberger

Andreas J. Köstenberger (PhD, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School) is the theologian in residence and director of the equipping center at Fellowship Raleigh, a cofounder of Biblical Foundations, and a host at Oak Tree Cottage, a hospitality and coaching ministry to Christian leaders. He is the author, editor, or translator of over sixty books, including A Theology of John’s Gospel and Letters; God, Marriage, and Family; and Invitation to Biblical Interpretation.

Marny Köstenberger

Marny Köstenberger (ThD, University of South Africa) is a teacher and women’s consultant, the author of Jesus and the Feminists, and the coauthor of God’s Design for Man and Woman and Parenting Essentials. She previously served as director of women’s programs and mentoring, and professor of theology and women’s ministry at various churches and seminaries. Marny and her husband, Andreas, live in North Carolina.

Product Details

Format: Paperback
Page Count: 488
Size: 6.0 in x 9.0 in
Weight: 23.63 ounces
ISBN-10: 1-4335-9280-0
ISBN-13: 978-1-4335-9280-5
ISBN-UPC: 9781433592805
Published: March 30, 2027

Table of Contents

List of Charts
Foreword by Carl Trueman
Foreword by David Platt
Authors’ Preface to the Third Edition

Chapter 1: The Current Cultural Crisis: Rebuilding the Foundation                   
Chapter 2: Leaving and Cleaving: Marriage in the Old Testament                     
Chapter 3: No Longer Two, but One: Marriage in the New Testament              
Chapter 4: The Nature of Marriage and the Role of Sex in Marriage: God’s Purpose for Making        Man Male and Female
Chapter 5: The Ties That Bind: Family in the Old Testament
Chapter 6: The Christian Family: Family in the New Testament
Chapter 7: Parenting: Biblical Precepts and Current Issues
Chapter 8: Living Out God’s Design: Navigating Reproductive and Gender Challenges
Chapter 9: Undivided Devotion to the Lord: The Divine Gift of Singleness
Chapter 10: Abandoning Natural Relations: The Biblical Verdict on Same-Sex Sexual                  Conduct
Chapter 11: Separating What God Has Joined Together: Divorce and Remarriage
Chapter 12: God, Marriage, Family, and the Church: Learning to Be the Family of God

Uniting All Things in Him: Concluding Synthesis
For Further Study: Helpful Resources
General Index
Scripture Index

Endorsements

“This book is wide-ranging and reflects mature judgment in interpreting Scripture and applying it to life. The author does not avoid controversial issues, but in each case he treats the issues fairly with ample explanation of alternative views. This is an excellent book that deserves to be widely used.”
Wayne Grudem, Distinguished Research Professor Emeritus of Theology and Biblical Studies, Phoenix Seminary

“In breadth of coverage, thoroughness of learning, clarity of analysis and argument, and, I think, soundness of judgment, this solid, lucid, pastorally angled treatise has no peer. Evangelicals who research, debate, teach, and counsel on gender, sex, marriage, and family will find it an endlessly useful resource.” [from the first edition]
J. I. Packer, Late Board of Governors’ Professor of Theology, Regent College

“The special value of this book lies in its pervasive exposition of Scripture. We are adrift in a sea of speculation without this.”
John Piper, Founder and Teacher, desiringGod.org; Chancellor, Bethlehem College & Seminary; author, Desiring God 

“Anything Andreas Köstenberger publishes is worthy of attention. His international education and experience, his teaching career, and his Christian character make him an author to be read with both care and anticipation. You may not agree with all his conclusions, but you’ll be better equipped for living and teaching about God, marriage, and family. Sensible, balanced, and biblical, this is a sound and timely summary of the Bible’s teaching on some of the most basic and yet controversial topics in today’s world. I highly recommend it.”
Mark Dever, Pastor, Capitol Hill Baptist Church, Washington, DC

“This is a superb book—the work of a gifted exegete whose feet are firmly planted in this world. God, Marriage, and Family addresses the daunting issues facing today’s Christians regarding marriage, divorce, remarriage, sexuality, children, contraception, abortion, singleness, sex roles, and leadership with radical biblical fidelity and practicality. If you want the Bible on these questions, this is the book! What a gift to today’s church!”
R. Kent Hughes, Senior Pastor Emeritus, College Church, Wheaton, Illinois

“The Christian looking for a brief, understandable, straightforward, intelligent, and faithful presentation of what the Bible says about marriage, family, divorce, remarriage, homosexuality, abortion, birth control, infertility, adoption, and singleness need look no further.”
Ligon Duncan, Chancellor and CEO, Reformed Theological Seminary

“This volume is a treasure trove of biblical wisdom on matters pertaining to marriage, child-rearing, singleness, and sexuality. As Western society struggles to hold on to its social identity, this study reaffirms God’s will for self-understanding and family ties. Readers seeking the whole counsel of God on these matters will find enormous assistance here.”
Robert W. Yarbrough, Professor of New Testament, Covenant Theological Seminary

“The book is especially valuable because it is remarkably clear and comprehensible, while at the same time reflecting deep and responsible research. I consistently found the conclusions to be sound and biblically faithful.”
Thomas R. Schreiner, James Buchanan Harrison Professor of New Testament Interpretation, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary

“Characterized by exemplary exegetical analysis, Köstenberger’s book is a refreshing and welcome addition to the current debate on marriage and the family. This outstanding work will help academicians, pastors, counselors, and anyone who genuinely seeks to understand God’s design from a biblical perspective.”
Mary A. Kassian, author, The Right Kind of Confident

“This volume should be not only on the shelf of every pastor in this land but also in the syllabus of every course on marriage and the family taught in Christian colleges and seminaries. The author’s careful defense of traditional biblical values relating to family life demands a serious reading, especially by those who do not agree with him.”
Daniel I. Block, Gunther H. Knoedler Professor Emeritus of Old Testament, Wheaton College